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Author Archives: Minna Hong

Sex and dating, dating and sex, part eight

I’ve decided that I want to do ten posts about this topic, so three to go. Why? Because. This is one way my neurodivergent brain works, by the way. It insists on making patterns when there aren’t any. I know that’s normal to some extent with everyone, but my brain does it to a bothersome… Continue Reading

Dating, sex, and tech, part seven

Apparently, I have more to say about dating, sex, and tech. Techs in the city? Text in the city? Oh, wait. It’s Sex AND the City. Whatever. I never watched the showl/movie?/whatever, anyway. This is my post from yesterday in which I talk about what I thought was going to happen in my life versus… Continue Reading

Dating and tech, part six

Just when I thought I would have a tech issue-free day….I will say it was not anything big, nor, sadly was it unexpected. It was just my internet deciding to go out for a minute. For no reason. It does this once every few weeks. Sometimes, it’s the internet actually going out for a minute.… Continue Reading

More about dating…and tech issues, part five

Day three? Four? Something like that of tech issues. This time, it’s completely self-inflicted, which doesn’t make it any less frustrating. In fact, it’s more frustrating because why the hell did I do that? If only I hadn’t done that! Here’s what happened. A couple days ago, I accidentally kicked my PC tower. Hard. It… Continue Reading

Sexy times in my future? (Part three)

Sex. Dating. I have more thoughts on this, but before I get there, I want to touch a bit more on technology and when it doesn’t work. Facebook rolled out the encryption in chat thing, and because I cleared my cache, it now won’t recognize me in one specific chat–the only one I use on… Continue Reading

Let’s talk about dating, sex, and more

I want to talk more about dating, but not necssary about labels. I mean, the topic may come up, but that’s not the main purpose of this post. The last two times I thought about dating to the point of composing the ad in my head, the world got in my way. The first time… Continue Reading

Last day of May–and more about labels, part eight

Let’s talk more about labels and sexism. Oh, that wasn’t what we were talking about? Oh well. It’s what I want to talk about now. In the Discord I’m in, there was a discussion about boycotts and calling out actors for problematic ideas/behavior. This isn’t the first time this convo has happened, and I heave… Continue Reading