My third re-birthday is coming up. It’s the third anniversary of my medical crisis–well, it will be the day after the day this is posted. September 3rd, 2021. That was the day I died–twice. And came back to life–twice. Sometimes, I think I should have chosen the day I woke up as my re-birthday, but to me, this was the more impactful day. Even if I don’t remember it.
That’s the weird part to me. Such a momentous day in my life is one I don’t remember at all. I’ve made my peace with it (and that I’m missing most of the week prior to it), but it’s still something I muse about from time to time. I woke up (or was still up) at three in the morning and could not breathe. I had the wherewithal to get up and get the cordless phone, to call 9-1-1, and to follow what they told me to do. Which was to go to the front door and unlock it. Then, I promptly passed out in the front hallway, which is how the cops found me.
I rarely think about it any longer, but when I do, it never ceases to amaze me. I did all that while being unable to breathe. The cops arrived in time to bag me (with oxygen) and keep me alive until the EMTs came. That the cops knew they had to bag me and had the ability to do so was a miracle in and of itself. It helped that where I live is a sleepy little suburb and they could get to me in two minutes was a big plus. Had they taken any longer, I would have been permanently dead. The brain cannot do without oxygen for very long. Brain damage starts in less than a minute, and you will not live past fifteen minutes. (Ten minutes is very dicey.)
I have very little brain damage (at least that I can tell), so they probably got to my house in less than a minute. It was helpful that I was able to open the door before passingh out because otherwise, that would have added several valuable minutes to the time it would have taken for them to respond.
This is what gets to me when I think about it. So many things had to go right in order for me to survive. Let me recap.
First of all, I had to call 9-1-1 and tell them that I could not breathe. I had to listen to the operator, get to the first door, and then unlock the door (before passing out). Then, the cops had to get there in less than a few minutes. Then they had to know what to do when they found out I was not breathing (bag me with oxygen). Then, the EMTs had to come there in a hurry as well. Following that, they did their thing in dealing with my two cardiac arrests and stroke.