Underneath my yellow skin

Get off my lawn

In wtaching the Outside Xbox/Xtra crew doing their hypemeter reaction to GeoffCon, I was cracking up because Mike was the grumpy old man of the group. That’s how he always is during these kind of events. One year, he was saying, “Enough anime bullshit!” which made everyone laugh, but was actually kind of rude. This… Continue Reading

Loving yourself unconditionally

Most people I know, including myself, have self-esteem issues. It seems pretty endemic in being a human being–thinking you’re shit, I mean. Of course, it’s to varying degree, and there are outright narcissists who think they’re better than everyone else. But even within that group, many of them need constant praise in order to pump… Continue Reading

Family dysfunction: the gift that keeps on giving

I have pretty much given up on Slate advice columns because I don’t like most of the columnists and, to be frak, the commentariat is….not my cup of tea in general. Or rather, I never know which way they’re going to swing, and it’s frustrating to me. For the most part, I can guess which… Continue Reading

Fashion frustration

It is not a secret that in fashion, personal care, and hygiene, women pay mor ethan men do. I’m intentionally using the binary because that’s what most products are marketed at and as–men and women. A woman’s t-shirt will cost more than the male version because, ostensibly, it takes more tailoring. Uh huh. You would… Continue Reading