Underneath my yellow skin

A weight off my mind

In yesterday’s post, I wrote about two letters at Ask A Manager that were about internalized misogyny (more or less). I was midway through dissecting the second, so let’s continue with that. The LW was saying that she didn’t regret the decision she made not to be close to her coworkers/reports, but then whining about… Continue Reading

Internalized misogyny is a hell of a drug

Today, there are 2 letters at Ask A Manager that relate to gender-specific assumptions/statements. The first is just a hot mess of internalized misogyny and doesn’t really need much dissection (though she got a ton of it from the commentariat–and I will probably add to it myself. Alison had an excellent and thorough response to… Continue Reading

Do you want my help or not?

It takes a village to raise a child. This African proverb became even more popular in America after Hillary Rodham Clinton used part of it as the title of her…memoir? Book? Google tells me the latter and that it’s lessons we’ve learned form our childhood. In that case, the lessons I learned from my childhood… Continue Reading

Put a (Elden) Ring on it

It’s been nearly eight months since Elden Ring was released. At its peak, it reached nearly a million concurrent users on Steam. Those are heights that are not seen by non-MM….O? games. Currently, there are roughly 25,000 concurrent users on Steam, which seems pretty damn good to me. In comparison, the latest Platinum Game, Babylon’s… Continue Reading